If you have been separated for quite some time, months or years, and have tried counselling, tried mediation multiple times, tried JDR, had one or more bilateral parenting assessments done, and nothing seems to help, don't despair.

Co-parenting coordination could possibly provide what you and your family needs.  

One family that our agency assisted through co-parenting coordination had been struggling with a variety of issues for 9 years.  That's right, nine years!

The conflict, animosity, and mistrust were very entrenched, and while work continues, many of the outstanding impasses have been resolved.  It's probably worth noting that, surprisingly, arbitration has not yet been required.